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What parents of neurodivergent children should know

Written by Trevor Keen | Dec 16, 2025, 2:39:25 AM

Neurodivergent children have brains that process information, communicate or interact with the world differently from what's considered typical, as with autism, ADHD or dyslexia. Every neurodivergent child is different, so the most helpful support builds on their strengths, respects how they communicate, and brings home, school and health professionals together.

Prepared by Trevor Keen

Founder and Physiotherapist · Published 16 December 2025 · Updated 27 October 2026

Raising a neurodivergent child can bring its share of challenges, and it's also deeply rewarding. Because neurodiversity is broad, every child's needs are different. This guide covers what neurodivergent means, the most common conditions, how to support your child's development and wellbeing, and where to find help in South Australia.

At a glance

✓"Neurodivergent" describes people whose brains work differently from what's considered typical. It comes from the neurodiversity movement, which sees these differences as natural variations.
✓Common examples include autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia and Tourette syndrome, and many children have more than one.
✓Two children with the same diagnosis can have very different strengths, communication styles and support needs.
✓Support helps most when it respects your child's preferences and autonomy, and when parents, teachers and therapists work together.
✓Through the NDIS early childhood approach, children younger than 9 can get support without a diagnosis.

What does neurodivergent mean?

"Neurodivergent" describes people whose brains process information, communicate or interact with the world in ways that differ from established neurological or social "norms". The term comes from the neurodiversity movement, which sees these differences as natural variations in how human brains work.

Those "norms" grew out of older cultural ideas about what counts as typical. Talking about neurodivergence makes the point that a brain that works differently isn't broken, it's a variation.

Neurodivergent is also an identity and community term. As your child grows, notice how they prefer to describe themselves and their neurodivergence, and follow their lead.

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What are common neurodevelopmental conditions?

A wide range of conditions sit under the neurodivergent umbrella. The most common include:

  • Autism (autism spectrum disorder): differences in social communication and interaction, and focused or repetitive interests and behaviours. Sensory sensitivities are common.
  • ADHD (attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder): differences in attention, activity levels and impulsivity.
  • Sensory processing differences: the brain finds it harder to process and respond to some sensations. "Sensory processing disorder" isn't a separate diagnosis in the DSM-5, but the differences are real. Our guide to sensory processing differences explains more.
  • Dyslexia: differences with reading and spelling.
  • Dyspraxia (developmental coordination disorder): differences with coordinating movement and motor planning.
  • Dyscalculia: differences with numbers and maths.
  • Dysgraphia: differences that affect writing.
  • Tourette syndrome: a neurological condition involving motor and vocal tics.

This isn't a complete list. Many children have more than one of these, as they often overlap. Autism and ADHD together is common, and some people in neurodivergent communities call this AuDHD.

Many neurodivergent people also question the word "disorder" in these names, because a key idea of the neurodiversity movement is to see them as variations rather than disorders.

Why is every neurodivergent child different?

Two autistic children can have very different experiences: one may have high support needs and another low support needs. Two children with the same diagnosis can have completely different communication styles, sensory needs, interests and support requirements.

Their environment, personality, any co-occurring conditions and their own experiences all shape how they learn and take part. That's why individual support matters: it respects your child's preferences, autonomy and strengths rather than applying one approach to everyone.

How can you support neurodivergent children at home and school?

Good support comes from compassion, understanding and working together. It's less about focusing on differences and more about building on your child's strengths and how they experience the world.

Build communication and trust

  • Learn their communication style: notice their pace of speech, gestures and cues, and use augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) tools if your child has limited speech. Meeting them in their own style helps them feel understood and respected.
  • Respect their choices: let your child make choices and express their needs in a safe environment, and don't override their autonomy when there's no risk to their wellbeing.
  • Keep things calm and predictable: especially if your child is prone to anxiety or finds emotional regulation hard.
  • Make room to unmask: some neurodivergent children hide or "mask" their differences to fit in, which can be exhausting. Downtime after demanding days helps.

Work with teachers and health professionals

Working with your child's teachers, psychologists, occupational therapists and other health professionals helps your child get consistent support through the day. This matters most for children with high support needs.

Share what you know: your child's strengths, what helps them (such as low lighting or quiet spaces) and what's hard (such as loud places or too much sensory input). Stay in regular contact with your child's therapists, so goals can change as your child grows.

For GPs and referrers

For teachers, GPs and support coordinators

If you're supporting a child who may be neurodivergent, or a family looking for an assessment or therapy, you can refer to CHSA. Our team works with schools and other professionals so support is consistent across settings.

Where can you find help in South Australia?

The NDIS and early childhood support

Through the NDIS early childhood approach, children younger than 6 with developmental concerns, or younger than 9 with disability, can get help from an early childhood partner, and a diagnosis isn't needed for this. Early connections can link your family with community and mainstream services and other families, and help you apply for the NDIS if that's right for your child. For older children, NDIS funding for supports such as therapy or equipment depends on meeting the NDIS eligibility requirements.

Support in the early years can help children build communication, social and everyday skills, and learn to work with their minds rather than feeling they have to mask who they are.

It's also worth looking into local services, community programs and state-based resources that sit alongside NDIS-funded supports.

How CHSA supports neurodivergent children and families

At CHSA, we offer psychology, neurodevelopmental assessments, paediatric occupational therapy and positive behaviour support, shaped around each child's goals and needs.

At every step, we consider your child's preferred way of communicating, their sensory needs and their strengths, and we work with you, your family, educators and other professionals so your child is supported across every setting.

Common questions

What does neurodivergent mean?

It describes people whose brains process information, communicate or interact with the world differently from what's considered typical. It includes autism, ADHD, dyslexia and other neurodevelopmental differences.

Is neurodivergent the same as autistic?

No. Autism is one kind of neurodivergence. Neurodivergent is a broader term that also covers ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, Tourette syndrome and more.

Does my child need a diagnosis to get support?

Not always. Children younger than 9 can get help through the NDIS early childhood approach without a diagnosis, and you can see a psychologist or occupational therapist privately without one. An assessment can help you understand your child's needs and may be needed for some funding.

What is AuDHD?

AuDHD is a term some people in neurodivergent communities use for someone who is both autistic and has ADHD. The two often occur together.

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Prepared by

Trevor Keen

Founder, Conscious Healthcare SA · Physiotherapist (AHPRA PHY0002063374) · Master of Physiotherapy and Bachelor of Psychological Studies, Flinders University

Trevor is a physiotherapist whose lived experience of disability led him to found CHSA, bringing psychology, assessments, occupational therapy, behaviour support and dietetics under one roof in Adelaide. He has completed a Bachelor of Psychological Studies at Flinders University, is now studying psychology at honours level, and helps write our guides alongside the clinicians who deliver each service.

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Sources

  1. NDIS: How to get help for your child (early childhood approach)
  2. Raising Children Network: Neurodiversity, neurodivergence and children
  3. Raising Children Network: Masking in neurodivergent children and teenagers

This guide is general information, not advice about your situation. Speak with your GP or one of our team about what's right for you.